Raising independent humans: Not gender roles.

 We raise girls to be strong independent women who don't need a man now we need to raise boys to be strong independent men who don't need a woman.

That way when they find love they will want each other not need one another and can work independently and together better. We did this to ourselves by making our girls stronger but not getting our boys stronger. I have boys and girls and I am raising them as equals, they all learn to cook, clean, budget money, solve problems with and without help. Its important for both men and woman to learn to maintain a household.